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The Ultimate Online Dating Guide: Secrets of How Savvy Women Find Great Matches

A good deal of the success has to be credited to the free online dating services particularly places like Plenty of Fish which is the crown jewel of the no cost dating websites.

But even a powerhouse free dating service has its problems. Plenty of Fish founder Markus Frind stated on his blog in January,”I’m letting hundreds of millions of dollars in revenues slip through my fingers every year by sending people to competitors’ sites.   Given what everyone else in the market is doing now the only real choice we have is to acquire a mass market paid dating site or build one myself.”

Letting revenue slip through their fingers may not be unique to free online dating services (indeed it can happen to any business online or off)  but it does highlight some of the problems these companies face and how it could adversely affect the consumer who is looking to explore online dating.

Some of the obstacles concerning free dating sites include:

1. Really Free?

There are a number of free online dating services that practice what they preach. Free is free. For others there are limits.  You can set up a profile and  even get in touch with a few prospects. However if you want to access the chat rooms or do some instant messaging you are going to have to fork over some cash.  If that’s the case then it maybe cheaper to go with a paid service that provides full membership up front.

2. Unsecure Email

Businesses are in business to make money. That goes for the online as well as offline world. Even if an online dating service is giving away the bulk of their product and services they still want to get some kind of profit out of it. Selling advertising space won’t always cut it; selling your email just might. That’s not to say that all free online dating services do this but there are a few that have to make up the cost somehow. Check in the terms and conditions or other fine print to see if selling your email is part of the signup process.

3. From Gray To Dark 

Very few free online dating services have a sorting out process. Which means you get what you pay for. There are going to be a lot of online dating profiles that are only set up to advertise. You will also see quite a few built to scam you. And then there are those whose sole desire is to make you a lead character in their dark fantasies.  While even paid online dating services have no way of filtering out all the weirdness and deception they do at least have a screening apparatus in place. Since the same cannot be said for free services it goes without saying that they get more than their fair share of undesirables. 

There was talk sometime back that paid online dating services were on the decline. That got dispelled when many of these paid site reported record shattering increases in memberships and profits. While there will always be a market for free dating services be careful that they do not come with a price too rich for your taste.

It’s no secret that women are often bombarded with advances from other male members from free dating sites. Women on popular dating sites sometimes average up to 100 new messages per day. The problem is for the majority of these admirers is that 95% of them will never get a look in.

In order for men to become one of the minority and to succeed with online dating, they need to first figure out what motivates and inspires a woman to respond in the first place before she instinctively hits the delete button.

There is no doubt an art form of how to get your emails and messages read. Think of it from her point of view, if she gets the same old style of unimaginative messages and greetings day after day it stands to reason that messages with a unique and inspirational theme will have a positive reaction by the recipient.

Messages with little or no thought tells her that the guy has not bothered to even properly read her profile or address concerns and interests as set out on her singles dating profile web page. Standard messages such as “hi, wanna chat sometime” or “hi, I really like your profile” sends a message that he is probably spamming numerous women with the same messages and that he has no clue what she is really looking for and just makes him come across as down right desperate or an internet dating pest. Women want to be inspired not pestered.

Write this one down guys: Men often fall in love visually. Women often fall in love with witticism and charm.

Men are inspired to initiate contact with online dating when they see an attractive picture. She will write back to you or even initiate contact based on what is written. See the difference?

Need some more advice on how to succeed with women? Take some time out to research what she wants and needs to be mentally stimulated. The physical part is the easy bit once you’ve won over her mind. Can you confide in a female friend for advice or assistance with this subject? It’s a good way to get the ball rolling. Also take the time to read articles about women.

Make it your mission to find out how the lovely ladies tick and how to stimulate their minds. This is the keystone in succeeding with online dating.

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