Dating as a christian


Is it easier to date as a christian vs. a non christian

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25 Responses to “Dating as a christian”

  1. Grapes428 Says:

    I am Catholic but that doesn’t mean I have to find a woman who is Catholic. I am not an overly self-righteous person and expect the woman I marry to have the same exact relationship I have with God. It’s a waste of time. Go with personality, not religious beliefs. Because conflicts in the future that have to do with that are just going to be silly. No guy who believes in God is going to turn down a girl just because she’s not religious. But I guess women are different about that.

  2. vssia Says:

    @laura686979 God told one lady that she was going to have “his” baby. You saying God doesn’t do that anymore? The UNCHANGING God doesn’t do that anymore?

  3. DERBENJ Says:

    @VickyVue. With this “woman should’nt approach a man thinking” thats why lots of women are single now. Sometimes the man may like the woman but he’s just shy. There’s nothing wrong with a woman approaching a man without making herself too availiable.

  4. DERBENJ Says:

    @VickyVue With this “woman should’nt approach a man thinking” thats why lots of women are single now. Sometimes the man may like the woman but he’s just shy. There’s nothing wrong with a woman approaching a man without making herself too availiable.

  5. lafemmenaturelle Says:

    I believe it depends on if the person/people are REALLY CHRISTIANS~~~You have to walk the walk AND talk the talk:)

  6. heartlessangel7 Says:

    @SaintJohn86 “God helps those who help themselve”…Not a christian and I know that.

  7. ikeashiasanders29 Says:

    Its all about your personal walk, you have to make sure that you are whole as a single before you get into a relationship. You must learn to be alone first there has to be a time for just you and GOD. Then when you feel like you dont need anyone and you have all your past issues worked out pray and GOD will bring you somebody. Dont allow people to take you awayh by somthing they say Jesus told them but be reassured in your own relationship with Jesus

  8. VickyVue Says:

    Women that state that are out of order, PERIOD! there is nothing in scripture that states that a woman is supposed to approach a man, so we need to stop asking questions which clearly do not relate to scripture and acting as if we don’t understand, rebuke those women that are approaching you and keep it moving, period.

  9. babylana70 Says:

    i like your style

  10. ZION412 Says:

    Royalty1able – All have sinned and (continually) fall short of the glory of God. – Romans 3. Paul wrote “who will save me from this body of sin and death” Romans 7. As long as we are in this body we will continually sin, even as spirit filled Christians like Paul. Our trust needs to be in the cross, and Jesus’ blood, as we run the race as one who wins a crown. We will never be perfect as we are in this body, only at the resurrection with our glorified bodies. So lets just run forward.

  11. NameSupplied Says:

    @ Royalty1able, Take it easy mate. When you went to school, you did one year level at a time, you didn’t learn everything in one day. You can also scare people with too much information too soon if they are new or non christian. This is called bible bashing i’m afraid. slow and steady wins the race. Please don’t take this the wrong way.

  12. keeblergraham21 Says:

    The divorce rate is still about 50%, and Christian couples make up a lot of these. The easy excuse is that these couples werent grounded in Jesus enough, but I believe theres another reason: If youre ignoring reality enough to maintain a relationship with a being youve never seen, youre probably not paying enough attention to the spouse you see everyday.

  13. Royalty1able Says:

    Love the Lord and you won’t sin and the desire to sin will leave you, Prov 4v23. Live the higher life your above sin if you are in Christ! Grab a hold of that truth and your life wow you’ll be an amazing person of God. xXx

  14. Royalty1able Says:

    We have the power to become the sons of God, sons of God do not sin. If your born again Christian know who Gods made you! :) ! Jesus is so wonderful! Your a dynamo called to do greater works than Christ Jesus on this earth John 14:12, He is coming for a Church (we are the Church) without spot wrinkle or blemish. Ephesians 5:27. If you’ve got Christ in you your His hands and feet to this world Eph 5v30. If you’ve received the Holy Spirit your a temple, don’t share it with sin, lust etc.

  15. Royalty1able Says:

    We are told to flee sin and resist the devil, flee the very appearance of evil. Thessalonians 5:22. Its not about trying in our own strength not to sin we do it because we have the nature of Christ and love the Lord. Its about always being conscious of the Holy Spirit and His voice, He’ll never lead us into sin, we choose not to, for young Christians they have to renew their minds with the Word. We must be clean vessels fit for the Masters use. 1 John chapters 1,2 and 3. And John 1v12.

  16. Royalty1able Says:

    When we became born again John 3 then we were made the righteousness of God, new creations 2 Corinth 5v17 given a new spirit, and so if we have received the Holy Spirit then we are completely empowered by God to walk right with Him and not sin. Romans 6. If we live life doing whatever we want and expect God to forgive us for everything and do it again and expect forgiveness its not going to happen the Bible clearly warns us so many times about not insulting the grace of God.

  17. Royalty1able Says:

    Hiya, Its wisdom to know the Word of God and foolishness not to study it for our walk with Him, because we want to please our Father in heaven and mature to sons of God. “We are all human, and therefore we sin” is an excuse. We were made able not to sin and able to have a perfect relationship with God through Jesus Christ, to say because we are human is an excuse. Why would God say not to sin if He hadn’t given us the ability not to?

  18. ReattaLovesYou Says:

    We are all human, and therefor we sin, we will never be able to have a perfectly holy relationship till we are with God.

  19. mrtjwest Says:

    i tried to write something clever a few times but wasn’t smart enough to post it right :) sorry about all the deleted comments – hope things have made more sense of late – it’s tough eh ….

  20. farawayreach Says:

    You’re all insane. Stop believing in dumb fairy tales already. There was no such thing as “Jesus”. And if you black people are so christian then stop being so materialistic, arrogant and violent.

  21. JesusRokks Says:

    In a multitude of COUNSEL there is safety. we dont always have the answers… but the counsellor (God, or your pastor) does. we dont want to lean to our own understanding, but seek counsel from the Lord… if HE is guiding us (not our opinions, ideas, our flesh, etc) we will not go wrong and make mistakes we later regret. God is not the author of confusion, either lol. And lastly, like my pastor tells us (esp. for the ladies), set ur affection on things above & all these things will be added!

  22. theninacrew Says:

    I understand this very well. The whole thing about people telling you God told them something is a mind game. I’m a very young christian woman and a 53 yrs old man told me God said I was going to be his wife. I look at him and walked away. People will say anything to try to get next to you.

  23. cocochic1 Says:

    The problems of Christian dating are the same as non-Christian dating, the key is finding someone who is honestly on the same page as you rather than someone pretending to be. If God tells anyone a certain person is their husband/wife I do not believe it can be so unless he also tells the other party. God is a God of order. He doesn’t do drama, He is clear and plain. If in doubt just keep praying rather than rush down the isle. If it’s meant to be God will bring that person back around :)

  24. cocochic1 Says:

    It’s only by really getting to know someone that you can glean as to whether they are striving to live their lives in a Christian fashion. There is so much pressure on young Christians to live perfect dating lives and many struggle with sexual sin etc but there is no open forum to talk about it. Those struggling are also in church with those who are stronger/longer in the faith and often try to ‘live up’ to the super spiritual. It’s a case of people not being themelves just like in the World.

  25. cocochic1 Says:

    There are two parts to being a Christian – 1. Accepting Christ as your personal Lord and Saviour/. 2. Loving your neighbour (doing as to others…). It is at 2 that people fall short. Some ‘Christians’ do not know how to treat people period, let alone dating. Just because someone is a Christian it does not make them good. All I can say is that the person says they are a believer. So Christians are often disappointed by other Christians behaviour (male and female) as they expect more.

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